After a great two days at Oktoberfest this year, I learned a few things about the festival and made a few mistakes that I won’t be repeating again. Here’s my Oktoberfest tips for girls – because I don’t think there’s enough information out there for women attending the festival.
Where to Buy a Dirndl
Let me start off by saying that please, do everyone a favour, and don’t even bother buying one of those cheap Oktoberfest costumes that you see on so many costume party websites. They are nothing like traditional dirndls and everyone at Oktoberfest will be able to tell from a mile away where you bought it from. It is better to wear normal clothes than to wear one of those cheap imitations. Dirndls are traditional dress, but that doesn’t mean that they can’t be sexy. It’s worth remembering that the skirt shouldn’t be too short – the focus is definitely on the corset and cleavage of a dirndl. Plus, in the chilly September/October weather, you’ll be glad of that longer skirt.
If you don’t have the budget (or the time) to buy one from an alpine outlet shop around Munich, then high street store C&A stock a huge range of affordable dirndl dresses in a variety of sizes and colours. There is even a C&A store across the street from the Hauptbanhof, so it couldn’t be easier to pick one up before you head to the Oktoberfest.
There are several outlet stores in and around Munich which sell traditional styles and colours of dirndls, although you would need a car to reach them, as they tend to be situated on the side of highways. Major suppliers include designs from brands like Alpenhorn, Alpenfee and Alpen Schatz. If you are confident enough, you can Google “trachten” (the German word to describe this Bavarian style of clothes) and buy a dirndl online from a German retailer.
Often, you will be sold a dirndl in three separate parts – the skirt, the white blouse and the corset (the apron may also be included in with the skirt). But I would only recommend this if you plan on wearing your dirndl a lot or using it for several years, as this will usually work out more expensive.
If you can, look for the co-ordinated sets that most outlets offer. They will have put together a “look” including all the key pieces for one set price. I did this and it worked out much cheaper, plus I loved the colour combination of my dirndl.
If you do not like wearing a dress, most fashion stores now sell a version of lederhosen shorts for girls which you can wear with a cute check shirt and with or without braces.
Update: After receiving many emails and questions from readers about exactly where to purchase a traditional dirndl BEFORE you travel, I have found a few websites which are selling authentic, well-made (and, more to the point, cute) dirndls online. I actually used one of these sites to purchase my latest dirndl, which I wore to the Volksfest in Stuttgart:
Dirndl.com Trachten Outlet – Language can be changed to English at the top of the website, but all prices are charged in Euros, so make sure you check with your bank what kind of exchange rate fees you will pay when you order. They ship internationally and all shipping costs are displayed on their site.
Alpenclassics – This is a UK site, but prices can be changed to Euros or Dollars if required. They ship worldwide.
Moser – This site stocks many of the ‘big brand’ dirndls, as well as all the different accessories you may ever want or need (bags, blouses, stockings, shoes, jewellery, etc etc). They offer international shipping and free returns within 30 days.
When ordering from any of these sites (or online in general), make sure to double-check your size before you pay. Sizes can sometimes run small in dirndl dresses, and postage is pretty expensive, so the last thing you want is to order an outfit and have to pay to return it. I’m speaking from experience here, as this happened to me with my first online order last year – I *really* wanted a particular style, and assumed I’d squeeze into a size smaller as it was the only one left in stock. How wrong I was! It looked like a child’s dress when it arrived…
Tying the Knot
If you are going to wear the traditional dirndl, make sure to tie the knot of your apron correctly. A knot tied on your left side means that you are single, where a knot tied on the right side means you are married or unavailable. A knot tied tied in the front centre means that you are a virgin (not sure you would want to advertise that fact) and a knot tied in the centre of your back means that you are widowed. You will see guys checking out where girls’ knots are tied, although how they remember which is which when they are drunk is anybody’s guess.
What Shoes to Wear with a Dirndl
As girls we all know how important shoes can be to perfect an outfit and Oktoberfest is no different. You will often see girls wearing high heeled shoes and boots in an attempt to “dress up” their dirndl even more.
This is a mistake, in my opinion.
For one, you will be on your feet a LONG time, either walking, standing or dancing. Unless you are comfortable wearing high heels for around 8 hours straight, I would not recommend this. You will also want something with a good grip, especially if it’s raining as the wooden floors can become slippy. Even if it isn’t raining, with all the beer spilled, you are unlikely to want to ruin your best pair of heels.
The most ideal shoes to wear with a dirndl are a pair of comfy and cute ballet pumps or flats. Most German girls will wear these, or a kitten heel at most, as experience has taught them that it’s best. The emphasis should be on comfort but also looking and feeling good.
Besides this, I would definitely recommend wearing a pair of tan or natural tights/stockings with your dirndl. It gets cold, especially after the sun has gone down and if you are walking around outside, queuing for the beer tents or heading home via the metro, you will be glad not to have bare legs.
Can You Just Wear Your Normal Clothes?
Of course you can, and no-one will think any less of you if you do. Granted, most Germans will be wearing their lederhosen or dirndls, and it does tend to be mostly tourists who wear their own clothes to Oktoberfest, but it’s completely acceptable. Don’t feel pressured into buying or wearing something you don’t like or feel comfortable in. Having said that, the same common sense rules apply to comfortable shoes and layering your clothing.
What to Do if You Don’t Like beer
Honestly, you’re mostly screwed. Beer is the main element of Oktoberfest and it’s sold at all the tents, mainly in the litre steins. There is one wine tent which sells wine by the glass and bottle, but the atmosphere is different in this tent as the clientele is slightly older.
I mainly drunk Radlers (a beer shandy mixed with lemonade), partly because I love the flavour of them and partly to slow down how quickly I got drunk. But these are still mainly beer and have little lemonade in them, hence why they cost the same amount as a regular beer. Soft drinks and water are served in all the tents, but if you’re not going to be drinking at all, the tents will quickly get tiresome as the day wears on and everyone gets more and more merry.
What Accessories or Purse to Take
If you can avoid it all, I would try not to take a bag with you. I had one with my purse, camera and phone in it and it was annoying trying to find somewhere to put it, especially once everyone was dancing on the benches in the evenings. I was worried that someone would steal it or I would lose it amongst the craziness, not to mention the amount of beer that got spilled on it.
Having said that, you will need a scarf or cardigan to wear while you are outside in the evenings, so a bag is a good place to store these. I would advise taking the kind of bag or purse you would take on an evening out, and always find a safe place to keep it. Small across-the-body bags are the best, as you won’t need to put these down and can dance in them and take them to the bathroom with you.
It’s also good if you can bring a pair of sunglasses and an umbrella, as the weather can change a lot over the course of a couple of days, as it did when I was there.
The Bathroom Situation
Talking of bathrooms, let’s be realistic here for a minute. Oktoberfest is a festival, hence the toilet situation is much like that at a festival, except that most of them are indoors inside the tents. You WILL have to queue to use the bathroom, sometimes for quite a while in some of the tents, which isn’t always great when you have a bladder full of beer.
Toilets in the tents are quite large and well-stocked, so you don’t need to worry on that score, but there will always be an attendant in each of these bathrooms and if you are using it regularly, it’s customary to leave them a small tip of 1 or 2 Euros. If it wasn’t for these people, trust me, the bathroom situation would be terrible.
Last But Not Least: Enjoy It
By the end of the night, you may be covered in beer, your makeup may have all but disappeared and you may wonder why your purse is so much lighter than it was that morning, but you’ll have had a great time. Get used to not having much of your own personal space, especially when the tents get crowded in the evenings and also get used to making friends with complete strangers and singing and dancing with them; it’s all part of the fun.
But, most importantly, pace yourself. I lost count of the number of girls I saw crying on their friends’ shoulders because they had had too much to drink. You need to remember that you are drinking a litre of beer every time you order a stein. A litre. Would you drink a litre of water that fast? Probably not. Just take it slowly and enjoy it. Much better to go home happy than covered in puke and dried tears. Just saying.
Photo credits: parade, beer tent
Carolina says
Thanks for the tips! They are really helpful! π
Julia says
No problem, glad you found them useful π
Susan says
This is so helpful! I just started my research for next year’s fest and found your blog. Thank you for the tips!
Julia says
No problem! Glad you found it useful.
Dori says
This is great insight, thank you! I’ll be attending Oktoberfest for the first time this year and couldn’t be more excited. I bought my dirndl at C&A today (which was suggested by a German friend). For those of you wondering what the price range is, I bought a 3 piece coordinated outfit for 149 euro but they had others on sale. As mentioned, you can piece an outfit together but the color options were limited. Thankfully, the kid’s dirndls were on sale for 29 euro. I don’t know that I’d pay 150 for a two year old that won’t fit into her outfit by next year!
Although I’ve seen the shoes women are supposed to wear, I wasn’t thrilled about doing a heel so I’m glad to hear that flats are a standard choice. My feet and I thank you for posting this!
Julia says
Definitely go for what you feel comfortable with shoe-wise. You’ll be on your feet a LOT and the last thing you want is blisters. Plus, no-one is going to care what you’re wearing on your feet anyway, really. Enjoy!
Whitney says
Hi Dori! Can you please tell me which C&A store you went to? I’m attending Oktoberfest this year and will be in London two days before we leave for Munich. I’m coming from the U.S. and am having a hard time finding a proper dirndl. Thank you!!
Julia says
Not sure about where Dori bought hers, but there’s a C&A not too far from Munich central train station that sells dirndls.
Denise says
Best, real advice I’ve read! I have been 3 times and agree with everything you said. It really is all about being with people from all over the world and drinking beer (i prefer radlers too) and having fun. I call it Disneyland for adults – the happiest place on earth! Unless you’re that girl sobbing on your friend’s shoulder π
Julia says
I definitely agree that it’s like Disneyland for adults!
Sarah says
Planning my trip right now! How long are the lines for the bathroom? Should you basically just get up before you even have to go? Any close calls with that?
Julia says
Oh no, I really wouldn’t worry about it too much, honestly. Much like any festival or huge concert, there’s always going to be queues (or at least on the women’s side anyway!) but it’s nothing to worry about before you get there.
JACY says
HI THERE,
JUST CURIOUS, I AM COMING TO MUNICH FOR MY FIRST OKTOBERFEST THIS YEAR AND I AM WORRIED THAT ALL THE DIRNDLS WILL BE SOLD OUT – ATLEAST ALL OF THE GOOD ONES! WHATS YOUR TAKE???
Julia says
Hi Jacy – I think you should be fine. There are usually at least a couple of dirndl shops in cities that hold festivals like this that are open all year round, and at worst C&A should still have plenty. Obviously if you’re after a particular style, I’d order online before you go.
Mary says
Hello – could you explain a bit more by what you mean when you wrote “donβt even bother buying one of those cheap Oktoberfest costumes that you see on so many fancy dress websites”. I am going to Oktoberfest and it is my fear I will do just that.
I have searched for countless hours online, Amazon, Ebay, Etsy, and started searching UK & European retailers that will ship to the US. Considering the exorbitant shipping cost and potential return cost, this does not seem like a good option for me. I will not have time to shop there as I am coming to town late the night before.
Some German retailers seem to sell high end dirndls for special events, not Oktoberfest as you mention all the beer spillage. Do you or any readers know of any non US retailers with reasonable shipping prices that sell the kind of dirndl appropriate for Oktoberfest?
Your tips are great, I will use them! And, thanks for your help!
Julia says
Hi Mary, thanks for reading! When I say “fancy dress” I mean like the outfits that you can buy for costume parties (i.e. made of cheap material, with short skirts, that people might wear for Halloween – traditional dirndls have knee-length skirts at a minimum, and consist of 3 separate pieces – the dress, the blouse and the apron). I understand what you mean about the postage, especially because it can be expensive to send something back if it doesn’t fit (I had that issue myself last year). I just did a quick Google for “US dirndls” and a few sites came up that are selling proper dirndls in the US, so hopefully postage would be cheaper for you. I wouldn’t worry too much about it though, honestly – just choose something that you like and that you would feel comfortable in and you’ll be fine.
Whitney says
I had this exact same fear when I went last year! I ended up buying a dirndl off Ebay from a woman in Tennessee. The brand is Ernst Licht and they are located in the U.S. The fabric is really nice and not low end costume store grade. They’re true to size so go with your normal dress size. I think the price is reasonable as well. Have a great time!!
kfreed says
The best thing to do is to purchase your Dirndl at an authentic Trachten shop. They are smaller shops that generally sell the real deal and you need not empty the bank account to buy a nice traditional dress (the bodice/skirt is generally a one piece dress. On top of that you will need an apron and a Dirndl blouse. Wear either ballet flats or low bulky but feminine heels. DO NOT wear trainers with a Dirndl. This is a no-go on the list of what kinds of shoes not to wear π
Take it from a German π If you want to fit in and would like to wear to wear the traditional Bavarian costume, these are my tips π Have fun!
Candice says
Hi Julia,
Would you recommend a petticoat be worn under a dirndl.
I have brought a midi-length (just below the knee – although perhaps it will turn out longer on my 4″10 height haha) and am waiting for it to arrive. I didn’t purchase a petticoat with the dirndl & am wondering if that was a mistake?
Regards
Candice (Perth, Australia)
Julia says
I have never worn one, but it’s completely your choice. The skirts with dirndls are fairly full anyway, so I’ve never felt like they needed “puffing up”, but if you’re planning on doing lots of dancing and swooshing it around, you may want one π If it’s a matter of adding extra layers to keep yourself warm, I usually just wear flesh-coloured tights. I spotted many German girls doing this the first year and it’s a great compromise – keeps your legs warm and no-one can really tell you’re wearing them!
Robert says
By far the most appropriate footwear to team with a Dirndl is a nice pair of doll shoes with a slight or medium (not clunky) heel and narrow, or fairly narrow, strap – or even your favourite knee-high boots!